wrench out my heart while it beats

my brother has had a very difficult few weeks and the lessons and events i faced earlier in my life has allowed me to encourage him but when you watch your baby brother who is desperately seeking to become the man of God his heart is calling him to be weeping in deep anguish my heart is wrenched...especially as my parents are becoming just as broken and i want so much to just be there for everyone. I believe strongly in God's directivness in giving us certain tendencies and I have been given a heart of mercy where I come along side those who hurt and sit there and hurt with them. It is both a great strength and a great weight and I must learn that I am not to carry it for them but contiually point them to Him and give my trust to him as well knowing he will take care of them.